EVADER - PURSUER - NORM??
What kind are you? An evader or a pursuer? U like to shun away from problems? Give excuses when problem arises? Or face it like a Man? Avoiding questions that you dun like to answer? = Evader.
But of cuz..we are all made up of Both. All of us are evader and pursuer at the same time. We prefers to pursue for happiness and shun things we dun feel like facing it, regardless is at work or in a relationship. A crack in a relationship is always a result of pull and push factors - pull=temptations from the environment, push=current partner is becoming a pain in the ass to you. So if the right temptation sets in...Bingo! Say 'bye bye' to ya partner.
Is typical of any man/woman to pursue for such pleasures than continuing a relationship which they find it painful to carry on. And is common to find the so-called 'third parties' lingering/hovering around. And SO is becoming a norm for all these men/women to move on with new pleasures before having a clear cut with their current partners in the 1st place. (In case some senseless Cow going to comment on this again, I am just stating a matter of fact, not to argue if is right or wrong).
What kind are you? An evader or a pursuer? U like to shun away from problems? Give excuses when problem arises? Or face it like a Man? Avoiding questions that you dun like to answer? = Evader.
But of cuz..we are all made up of Both. All of us are evader and pursuer at the same time. We prefers to pursue for happiness and shun things we dun feel like facing it, regardless is at work or in a relationship. A crack in a relationship is always a result of pull and push factors - pull=temptations from the environment, push=current partner is becoming a pain in the ass to you. So if the right temptation sets in...Bingo! Say 'bye bye' to ya partner.
Is typical of any man/woman to pursue for such pleasures than continuing a relationship which they find it painful to carry on. And is common to find the so-called 'third parties' lingering/hovering around. And SO is becoming a norm for all these men/women to move on with new pleasures before having a clear cut with their current partners in the 1st place. (In case some senseless Cow going to comment on this again, I am just stating a matter of fact, not to argue if is right or wrong).
Situation usually arises whereby the 3rd party who is always ready to commit, get fooled in the end, cuz some men/women simply love to be showered with more love other than their regular partners. There is nothing wrong in loving Ms or Mr Number 1 and 2 and 3 and 4 and 5... at the same time, but how one deals with it does matter. Play smart and dun get caught. I said it is a NORM cuz similar episodes just keep happening around me, maybe this is just how this era of mankind deals with relationships.
